Would you like to know the number one etiquette question people ask me?

It’s: “What to do when no one RSVP’s to their wedding invitations?”

Poor brides, the caterer needs a number of guest and it’s hard to plan a get-together when you don’t know if you need food and supplies for 100 people or two hundred.

As a sign of respect it’s thoughtful to be one of the first to respond when you receive any invitation (within 24-hours).

It let’s couple know that you’re happy you were included, and you didn’t have to “decide” if you wanted to join them. You knew right away that you wouldn’t miss being there for the world!

If you don’t know if you will be able to attend, call when you receive the invitation, share your possible schedule conflict with the couple, and let them know when you’ll be able to let them know for sure if you can attend. In this way you still show respect for their wedding.

If you can’t (or don’t want to) attend, make sure to let the hostess know that you won’t be there (within 24-hours of receiving an invitation.)

As a bride, it’s best not to ask why someone won’t be able to attend your wedding. If they don’t offer a reason, simply tell them they will be missed and you understand.

For those quests who don’t reply within a week of the event, it’s fine for a bride to call and ask if they’ll be able to attend. You never know, the invitation could have got lost in the mail or accidentally overlooked.

You will never be more timely with your responses after this lol.

How did the carnation get such a terrible reputation as a flower? Maybe all those grocery store bunches gave them a bad rap (especially the green and blue ones that are clearly dyed unnaturally) But let’s give them another chance!!! From now on, let’s use their scientific name- Dianthus

See how a simple Dianthus bunch can be made into a simple and creative bouquet? Change the color, add some bling, wrap with a gorgeous ribbon and….. a more subtle, traditional feel with a tad of bling and sparkle! ( I would TOTALLY load this up with a TON more bling, but you get the idea!)

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My obsession with cupcakes is getting to be comical at this point (maybe i should just write a cupcake blog lol) Cupcakes are growing up and I am so proud to see what they have become

One of my new followers on Twitter has the funnest idea about cupcakes……. I happen to love kits that make life simple (even though i really do love the decorating…….. one of these days i will learn gumpaste flowers cuz my roses rock!!!)

So you want to have a fun spin on your wedding shower?

How about a treat to celebrate the upcoming football season (this is when i tend to bake anyway……… stay away from the TV lol)

But since we are in baking mood (for me, that would be ALWAYS!!!) lets talk about a great option for a Halloween Party… Show up to any party with these and I guarantee you will be the hit of the party! (who will care if you even dress up?)

There are so many more listed on Cupcake Cuties and the kits are perfect for 2 Dozen and all you need are cupcakes!  The rest is in the simple and complete kits!

This is just about the coolest way to OMG your wedding! I want a pair!!!

Meet Figgie Shoes from Everything Wedding on Vimeo.

Shoes are one of the most magical items in a woman’s wardrobe. They have the power to transform her into many different versions of herself, from mountain climber to beach beauty to sexy siren.

Shoes are personal. Figgie shoes are ridiculously personal—their purpose is to try and explain, in picture and personality, who YOU are, to anyone who happens to be looking.

It has been said that good shoes will take you to good places—our hope for you is that these will be the best pair of shoes you’ve ever owned.